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10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life: #8 Practice Your Opposites

“You have no idea how hard this is for me…”  That’s how my friend’s boss began when he told her that her job had been eliminated. You see, he’s an “F” and in his mind this gave him permission to focus...

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10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life: #9 Stop Trying to Control the World

Don’t you just love it?  That feeling that everything is going as it should?  In my blog post The Illusion of Control I talk about how we fool ourselves into thinking we’ve got things under control. As...

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10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life: #10 Find Your Higher Purpose

Image via Wikipedia It’s time to talk about the big picture – who we are in the world.  While self-awareness and self-acceptance discussed in the first nine installments of this series are important,...

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10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life: Epilogue – It’s Your Turn

The steps in 10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life are based on my challenges, on what I’ve learned in my life.  They are the rules I try to follow every day to be the boldest, strongest and best person I...

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Meeting Your Ideals Half-Way

I love hearing from ya’ll out there, I’m constantly amazed at the spirit and depth of thought of the INFJs who I’ve connected with.  The following is a guest post by Izzati, who has been a consistent...

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INFJs – Surviving a Toxic Work Environment

Photo: Getty For eighteen years I worked for a company that valued Extroversion, Sensing and Thinking.  As an INFJ I sometimes felt like I was on a battlefield. Fortunately Judging skills were also...

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Living With Grace

This week I’m just going to share this a wonderful passage about grace from the book Fortytude by Sarah Brokaw.  It struck me as a perfect way to look at life when things don’t work out as expected....

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3 Steps to Confidence

Most of my life I’ve struggled with confidence and I hear the same from other INFJs. Over the years I’ve watched people who appeared confident and worked to figure out what makes them tick.  What I...

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Conquering Overwhelm

Image by rightsandwrongs via Flickr Overwhelm. That feeling that you can never catch up, that all those things you’re “supposed” to be doing will never get done. Overwhelm comes up a lot with my...

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What Are You Saying No To When You Say Yes?

A classic ice cream sundae, complete with a cherry on top (Photo credit: Wikipedia) Guest Post by Ben Dooley I wonder what it would be like to say “NO” to saying “YES”. And then say “YES” to saying...

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10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life: #7 Seek Approval From Within

Image by AJ Brustein via Flickr I spent some time reading an INFJ online bulletin board and was surprised and embarrassed at how many of the posts just shrieked “poor me!”  It showed up over and over...

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17 Graphs That Are Way Too Real For Introverts (Buzzfeed)

I couldn’t resist passing this clever list from Buzzfeed along to my fellow introverts. http://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/brb-im-introverting#.ifGVXmYAM

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Type Differences: How to Cope

I am an INFJ.  My best friend is an ESTP. Yup.  Complete opposites.  And, as you can imagine, this has led to many misunderstandings.  I’d visit her office and see endless piles of paper and think “How...

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10 Steps to an Amazing INFJ Life: #6 Stay Connected To the World

Image by Haags Uitburo via Flickr INFJs are typically pretty internal folks.  As Charles R. Martin states in the book Looking at Type: The Fundamentals, “For INFJs the dominant quality in their lives...

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